Despite what society says is beautiful or not, it is important that people feel sincerely good about themselves. I wish that more ladies would genuinely accept their beauty, and not put others down while doing so. For an example, someone who sincerely is confident with themselves won’t feel the need to give another woman dirty looks, hate on another, or give out bad energy period. I’m speaking from a female’s perspective, but it is really unfortunate to me that insecure women give out negative energy to each other, and this all boils down to how confident they are with themselves. I’m not arrogant or conceited, but despite how attractive or unattractive I am to someone…that doesn’t affect the way I feel about myself. We should not thrive off of people’s compliments or take their criticism to the heart. That is not healthy, and we will never be satisfied. This means loving our body types, our skin, putting an emphasis on inner beauty & just feeling truly great from the inside. Don’t worry about not being someone’s preference or body type, because out of all the people in this wide world….some will definitely be attracted to you. It’s just science & how the way things work naturally. I want people to feel better from within, and not critiquing others so harshly just to make themselves feel better. So what if some people don’t like the way you look or whatever? Love the way you look, still be humble, & don’t ever feel bad for being in love with yourself just because of society’s beauty standards! Women should smile at each other more instead of giving dirty looks. I’d rather compliment another female than to hate on her or speak negative. Uplift each other, have authentic inner beauty, and understand that true beauty is more than skin. Our true self esteem level will always come to surface sooner or later. So, let’s not be intimidated by anyone, be beautiful from within, and encourage this among other ladies. Remember, beauty is not just skin deep and being a positive person is a true indicator of genuine confidence & good self esteem.
In our society and generation, some men and women tend to bash each other alot. I notice, alot of times it is because of their own personal experiences. Yet, it is not healthy or right to decide every person of that gender is the same. Some people date or involve themselves with the same type of people, just with different faces. They get the same results, and instead of evaluating every aspect…they decide everyone has the same intentions or mindset. Some people never ask themselves why they keep falling for, attracting, or being attracted to these people. Some become bitter and don’t even realize it, and in reality they are just letting whoever did them wrong have power over them. You could miss out on someone who could be a blessing or a positive match for you just by your mentality. No, all men and women don’t cheat. No, all men and women are not scandalous, sour, dogs, unloyal, or whatever. It is a sad thing when people start having negative views on relationships and love because of who they decided to be with. Then, they assume everyone has the same intentions. I think it is simple minded to automatically assume negative things about me because of my gender and what you think most women (and men) are like. Gender bashing in any way is wrong and unless we know the individual personally….why would you place them in a box that may not even fit who they are? I’m tired of the Gender bashing from both sides. We are all individuals and the contents/characteristics of our mind & soul reveals more about us than our gender.